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    <title>Re: advice for 1st vibrator</title>
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      <name>Lester</name>
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    <updated>2010-01-02T21:44:35Z</updated>
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    <summary type="html">Definitely a good start for the new year, Sparky.</summary>
    <dc:creator>Lester</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2010-01-02T21:44:35Z</dc:date>
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      <name>10 Million Dollar Woman</name>
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    <updated>2010-01-01T19:44:19Z</updated>
    <published>2010-01-01T19:44:19Z</published>
    <summary type="html">YAYAYAYAAAA!!!!!!!!!&#xD;
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Happy New Year!</summary>
    <dc:creator>10 Million Dollar Woman</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2010-01-01T19:44:19Z</dc:date>
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    <title>Re: advice for 1st vibrator</title>
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      <name>Sparky</name>
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    <updated>2010-01-01T18:23:17Z</updated>
    <published>2010-01-01T18:23:17Z</published>
    <summary type="html">I have introduced the vibe again a few times. Use it as a spice, a tease, a toy.&#xD;
Last night, new years, after a few beers we began to play, she asked for the toy.&#xD;
Success!&#xD;
She is not quite ready for insertion bu she even took control and used it herself.&#xD;
Very erotic to watch.&#xD;
I stroked my cock and watched as she used the vibrator&#xD;
as she watched me jacking off.&#xD;
Extremely erotic.&#xD;
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A fantastic way to begin the new year.</summary>
    <dc:creator>Sparky</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2010-01-01T18:23:17Z</dc:date>
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    <title>Re: advice for 1st vibrator</title>
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      <name>10 Million Dollar Woman</name>
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    <updated>2010-01-01T02:19:49Z</updated>
    <published>2010-01-01T02:19:49Z</published>
    <summary type="html">oh and sometimes not being physically active in daily life can dull a good fuck &#xD;
so keep her active</summary>
    <dc:creator>10 Million Dollar Woman</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2010-01-01T02:19:49Z</dc:date>
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    <title>Re: advice for 1st vibrator</title>
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      <name>10 Million Dollar Woman</name>
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    <updated>2010-01-01T02:18:20Z</updated>
    <published>2010-01-01T02:18:20Z</published>
    <summary type="html">Oh no! that's not good&#xD;
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well advice is to watch her cycle, a good time to jump around like bunnies is when she's ovulating or in weird situations.. five days before her period.. HORNY time! Also.. buy her a a soft porn romance book.. always gets me in the mood when there is a dry spell. &#xD;
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I know, kinda silly but it helps.. think about it this way, you get her off BEFORE with a vibrator and why would she jump on you with the same expectation of getting that first high? It's not the same, it needs to be used while you two are entwined and I'd avoid insertion, just a teaser to get her to loosen up. She needs to feel that "need" of control and maybe that would help? or not&#xD;
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also watch the time of day.. not after a meal&#xD;
is she morning or night person? &#xD;
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just throwing shit out here &#xD;
lets hear some other tips..</summary>
    <dc:creator>10 Million Dollar Woman</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2010-01-01T02:18:20Z</dc:date>
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    <title>Re: advice for 1st vibrator</title>
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      <name>Sparky</name>
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    <updated>2009-12-05T06:09:40Z</updated>
    <published>2009-12-05T06:09:40Z</published>
    <summary type="html">I got her one.  Unfortunately I don't think she likes it.  She complains about "a foregin object" and wants me do do everything rather than her taking control.  Then she complains, "it's to rough, it's turned the wrong way, don't push so hard," etc etc. &#xD;
Alas, another failure, if I could just get her to let loose, to give me control, to fuck me like my name was Eddy.&#xD;
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sigh...................................</summary>
    <dc:creator>Sparky</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2009-12-05T06:09:40Z</dc:date>
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    <title>Re: advice for 1st vibrator</title>
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    <author>
      <name>stacy</name>
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    <updated>2009-12-02T20:56:45Z</updated>
    <published>2009-12-02T20:56:45Z</published>
    <summary type="html">Jeffro i would love to try the we vibe.... i've been dying to actually.....  but it's expensive so unfortunately will have to wait for a little bit...&#xD;
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I once upon a time have a rabbit and i loved it. It does look a little scary.. the soft  placement of the rabbits nose and ears sold me though... tell your gf to focus on the bunny's face and ignore everything else at first....  it's the simple things in life.....</summary>
    <dc:creator>stacy</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2009-12-02T20:56:45Z</dc:date>
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    <title>Re: advice for 1st vibrator</title>
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      <name>stacy</name>
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    <updated>2009-12-02T20:49:32Z</updated>
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    <summary type="html">lol! For some reason i find that hilarious! Haha.... the midwest.... who knew? &#xD;
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:)</summary>
    <dc:creator>stacy</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2009-12-02T20:49:32Z</dc:date>
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    <title>Re: advice for 1st vibrator</title>
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      <name>jeffro</name>
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    <updated>2009-12-02T18:40:00Z</updated>
    <published>2009-12-02T18:40:00Z</published>
    <summary type="html">Hey Stacy... Have you tried the we vibe? I read some mixed reviews on the Babeland site. Seemed like it didn't hit the right spots for some women and others just loved it. If you have tried it, did you use it with a partner? Apparently, it's designed so it can be used during intercourse.&#xD;
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Also interested in the rabbit, but my gf thinks it looks intimidating with all the gizmos and moving parts.</summary>
    <dc:creator>jeffro</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2009-12-02T18:40:00Z</dc:date>
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    <title>Re: advice for 1st vibrator</title>
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      <name>Lester</name>
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    <updated>2009-12-02T18:31:24Z</updated>
    <published>2009-12-02T18:31:24Z</published>
    <summary type="html">It's not just Vegas, my lady. Drive east on I-80 sometime, Stacy. In the MidWest, there is a big sex shop about every 50 miles or so. I guess it gets lonely out there.</summary>
    <dc:creator>Lester</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2009-12-02T18:31:24Z</dc:date>
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    <title>Re: advice for 1st vibrator</title>
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    <author>
      <name>jeffro</name>
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    <updated>2009-12-01T04:50:49Z</updated>
    <published>2009-12-01T04:50:49Z</published>
    <summary type="html">A superstore for toys? I'd love to see that. We do have one of the best toy stores out here in Seattle, even though it's small. Toys in Babeland.&#xD;
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I just googled disposable cockrings. I think I found what you were talking about. I'll have to try those out sometime. Thanks!</summary>
    <dc:creator>jeffro</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2009-12-01T04:50:49Z</dc:date>
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    <title>Re: advice for 1st vibrator</title>
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    <author>
      <name>stacy</name>
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    <updated>2009-12-01T04:44:19Z</updated>
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    <summary type="html">"I've never heard of these disposable vibrating cock rings. What drug store are you shopping at?" &#xD;
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Every drug store available.... Walmart, Albertons, Walgreens, hell even 7-11..... you can buy all kinds of stuff at 7-11.... I don't even notice it most of the time because we have superstores out here for toys if you want toys.... but that's just Vegas....</summary>
    <dc:creator>stacy</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2009-12-01T04:44:19Z</dc:date>
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    <author>
      <name>Lester</name>
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    <updated>2009-11-28T21:20:42Z</updated>
    <published>2009-11-28T21:20:42Z</published>
    <summary type="html">"I've never heard of these disposable vibrating cock rings. What drug store are you shopping at?"&#xD;
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Hell, they have them at WalMart here in San Diego! Haven't tried them out though. My cock looks at vibration as a distraction. That's why I've always looked with skepticism at ads for male sex toys. "Realistic vibrating pussy!" Really?! If any of you ladies actually has a pussy that vibrates, we need to know about it.</summary>
    <dc:creator>Lester</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2009-11-28T21:20:42Z</dc:date>
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    <title>Re: advice for 1st vibrator</title>
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      <name>jeffro</name>
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    <updated>2009-11-28T19:48:06Z</updated>
    <published>2009-11-28T19:48:06Z</published>
    <summary type="html">I've never heard of these disposable vibrating cock rings. What drug store are you shopping at?&#xD;
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I think I'll try out your suggestion about the glass dildo. My gf (who tends to run hot) loves the feeling of my fingers (which are usually cold) on her pussy.</summary>
    <dc:creator>jeffro</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2009-11-28T19:48:06Z</dc:date>
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    <title>Re: advice for 1st vibrator</title>
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      <name>stacy</name>
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    <updated>2009-05-26T04:18:16Z</updated>
    <published>2009-05-26T04:18:16Z</published>
    <summary type="html">I just read this again.... and i meant to say something else.... When i said c ring i was referring to this ring that goes around your penis and makes it vibrate they are disposable and are in the condom section in any drugstore..... Sorry hope i didn't confuse you!!! I actually have not experienced a c ring yet (but will soon) &#xD;
Also i didn't mention above a good old small, hand held vibrator... those are every where and most are really quiet. That would also be a good starter.&#xD;
Like I said if you get a good response to these, move on to the we vibe or the rabbits..... or the glass dildos (omg if you use these a tip: submerge it in really warm water first so that it's warm, not hot. Then, after she's all hot and moaning submerge it in cool water so it is cool, but not too cold! ok i'll shut up now), or the doorway swings and suspension handcuffs... i'm joking with ya!!&#xD;
  Happy fucking!!!</summary>
    <dc:creator>stacy</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2009-05-26T04:18:16Z</dc:date>
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    <title>Re: advice for 1st vibrator</title>
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      <name>stacy</name>
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    <updated>2009-05-25T03:54:41Z</updated>
    <published>2009-05-25T03:54:41Z</published>
    <summary type="html">First off. I'm really sorry about the grief you had to deal with. Some people are really disconnected with and even ashamed of their own sexuality, and expect every one else to be as well, labeling any one openly sexual as perverted, disrespectful, etc. Obviously, you are trying to keep your wife sexually gratified and keep things exciting in the bedroom, I seriously doubt you are going to rape her with a vibrating dildo, Jesus.... &#xD;
Anyways......&#xD;
I completely agree with Poon... I have had a lot of experience with the c-rings. They are a lot of fun, and are perfect for a starter and make a good transition toy, because they are not a full on vibrator, they just make your penis vibrate and stimulate the clitoris. When you have never used a vibrating toy before it is a little intimidating, the sound, the sensation is a little overwhelming so go reeeeeeealllly slow with her and be really gentle, it may take a while... but if she likes that I would move onto something a little more intnse like the we-vibe Poon suggested above ( which, OMG looks amazing I will try it soon and let you all know how it went!!!  THANKS POON!!!) but it may be a little intense for someone who's a little skiddish about toys as a starter anyway....&#xD;
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GOOD LUCK!!!   :)</summary>
    <dc:creator>stacy</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2009-05-25T03:54:41Z</dc:date>
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    <title>Re: advice for 1st vibrator</title>
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    <author>
      <name>Poontangle♂♥♀</name>
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    <updated>2008-09-29T06:32:51Z</updated>
    <published>2008-09-29T06:32:51Z</published>
    <summary type="html">Replied in the other thread.  But I didn't actually offer this one.&#xD;
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we-vibe.com  &#xD;
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This particular vibrator caught my eye some months ago.  Apparently, it is wearable, and during partner sex stimulates both, but more effectively than a vibrating C-ring.  Designed to give simulataneous clitoral and g-spot massage, but doesn't look at all like a rabbit/dildo.  Always curious about vibrstors that can be worn in "stealth mode" (undetected... except for the big smile, wobbly steps, and maybe the scent of sex in the air...  lol)&#xD;
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Bit pricey.  Does anyone who's used this model have any comments?</summary>
    <dc:creator>Poontangle♂♥♀</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2008-09-29T06:32:51Z</dc:date>
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    <title>advice for 1st vibrator</title>
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      <name>Sparky</name>
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    <updated>2008-09-26T18:26:13Z</updated>
    <published>2008-09-26T18:26:13Z</published>
    <summary type="html">I am interested in purchasing a vibrator for my wife.  She has never had a "sex toy".   I have, on occasion, used a mas-sager to help rub out a sore muscle, and would up using the machine to bring her to some big orgasms.  For this reason as well as the fact that I like to prolong sex play and really enjoy giving her many orgasms, I have told her she needs to get a vibrator.  She being more modest than me, would never think of buying a vibrator.  She tells me no don't get her one if I offer.  Being the loving lecherous man that I am want to buy her one.  My plan is to hide it in the bed and after having her well lubricated and aroused bring it out and slip it to her.  &#xD;
My question is what would be a good first and maybe only vibrator?  I believe she would be more prone to accept and use a simpler, less complicated model.  The "Rabbit" seems to be popular but I believe it would intimidate her.&#xD;
I asked this same question on "Ask a sexy woman anything" Tribe and two rabid feminists jumped me in defense of my wife's integrity.  I am not going to violate her femininity or force her into anything.  I am attempting to expanded our sex life and introduce new pleasures not use her as my sexual plaything.  My wife is much to much her own woman and independent to go for something like that anyway.  Please do not answer if you feel like giving me a lecture about the evolution of mankind and the emotional development of the human female.  I don't need it, I refer females as goddesses already, I just want to give her more pleasure for longer periods of time. &#xD;
Your opinions will be appreciated.</summary>
    <dc:creator>Sparky</dc:creator>
    <dc:date>2008-09-26T18:26:13Z</dc:date>
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