I am interested in purchasing a vibrator for my wife. She has never had a "sex toy". I have, on occasion, used a mas-sager to help rub out a sore muscle, and would up using the machine to bring her to some big orgasms. For this reason as well as the fact that I like to prolong sex play and really enjoy giving her many orgasms, I have told her she needs to get a vibrator. She being more modest than me, would never think of buying a vibrator. She tells me no don't get her one if I offer. Being the loving lecherous man that I am want to buy her one. My plan is to hide it in the bed and after having her well lubricated and aroused bring it out and slip it to her.
My question is what would be a good first and maybe only vibrator? I believe she would be more prone to accept and use a simpler, less complicated model. The "Rabbit" seems to be popular but I believe it would intimidate her.
I asked this same question on "Ask a sexy woman anything" Tribe and two rabid feminists jumped me in defense of my wife's integrity. I am not going to violate her femininity or force her into anything. I am attempting to expanded our sex life and introduce new pleasures not use her as my sexual plaything. My wife is much to much her own woman and independent to go for something like that anyway. Please do not answer if you feel like giving me a lecture about the evolution of mankind and the emotional development of the human female. I don't need it, I refer females as goddesses already, I just want to give her more pleasure for longer periods of time.
Your opinions will be appreciated.