Tensing

topic posted Thu, May 22, 2008 - 2:05 AM by  Unsubscribed
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I have not tried this but read that by tensing muscles in the arms, stomach and legs during orgasm doubles the pleasure. Yes?

Suppose to work well with arm and leg cuffs =]
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  • Re: Tensing

    Thu, May 22, 2008 - 4:39 AM
    my experience is that tensing will increase the intensity, but only up to a certain limit, whereas if you relax totally there is no limit to how intense it can get. relaxation seems to be pretty counter-intuitive, but it works. I recommend experimentation and research <smile>
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    Thu, May 22, 2008 - 6:01 AM
    that's why, i'm sure, that i have much stronger orgasms while tightly bound than ever before when the sex was merely vanilla. having the ropes to push against allows me to tense all muscles in the body and definitely increases the intensity and the length of my orgasms =]
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      Thu, May 22, 2008 - 4:50 PM
      also being tightly bound increases the degree to which you are 'at effect' - its like how I can tickle you better than you can
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      Re: Tensing

      Thu, May 22, 2008 - 8:11 PM
      Thanks for this subbygirl. I have only tried things with cords on appliances (blow driers, curling irons) that were available. It did feel a bit different, makes me want to experiment more with stationary ties.

      Lynn
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        Re: Tensing

        Thu, May 22, 2008 - 8:30 PM
        Tensing during orgasm does intensify the sensation but also shortens it for me.
        However, when being controlled (bound, held, pinned down, etc) the orgasm is
        very intense and easily repeaded.
        Also, if I'm told to be still and quiet the final release is explosive and usually neither still nor quiet...bad girl :)
        The presense of power/domination is the key for me in turning up the heat.
  • Re: Tensing

    Fri, May 23, 2008 - 8:17 PM
    When I am orgasaming it seems like I don't even have a choice in the matter- my body just tenses up and goes all ridged... There's a part of me that's annoyed at it, because it means I stop conciously pleasing the guy, but I find it often really turns them on because they KNOW I'm cumming....
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    Sat, May 24, 2008 - 2:15 PM
    I've found that I need to relax and NOT tense while I'm focusing on the sensation and building up.
    When I finally go over, my back arches and everything tenses up from the pleasure.
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      Re: Tensing

      Sat, May 24, 2008 - 2:40 PM
      If I tense up, in just the right way, it sends me into a more powerful blast, with more cum and sends tingles down to my toes.
      It doesn't happen that often, but when it does...bones crack, cum shoots far, my brain loses all thought and when I am done...total sense of peace with the world. ;-)
      Betcha

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