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    <title>a Slut defined.......... - Hot Sex Tips - tribe.net</title>
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      <title>I'm easy</title>
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      <description>I'm a proud male slut&#xD;
My ass is ambitious&#xD;
Come feel its redness&#xD;
A ripe autumn Delicious</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 04:54:22 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Übersatan XXIII The Gryphonheart</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2010-01-03T04:54:22Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: It makes me very uneasy...</title>
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      <description>"An acquaintance joyfully labels herself "a slut," by which she means that *she* defines her sexuality, decides who she has sex with and how often."&#xD;
&#xD;
Good girl.  And smart, too.&#xD;
&#xD;
And yes, if anyone wonders, this is very successfully accomplished according to the morality and sensibilities of the individual Female herself; married, single, or poly; in Relationship(s) or not.</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 03:47:22 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Elysienne</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2010-01-03T03:47:22Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>Elysienne, if I may say so, I really like your attitude.</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 02 Jan 2010 21:56:00 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Lester</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2010-01-02T21:56:00Z</dc:date>
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      <description>Any Male, any Female, who enjoys their sex, their sexuality, their sexual reality.  Screw the labels!  Smash down the gates that fence and border!  Burn the rules .... DO IT ... not because you're gay or straight, bi or switch or whatever ... whatever! ... but because IN THE MOMENT you chose to explore, experience, enjoy your birthright ... Pleasure.  &#xD;
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Slut.  A sexual being enjoying their sex.&#xD;
And luvin' it.</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 02 Jan 2010 11:30:40 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Elysienne</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2010-01-02T11:30:40Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: It makes me very uneasy...</title>
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      <description>After reading that, I want to add that I'm not saying that I think that most "sluts" are doing their thing in a self-destructive manner, or hurting anyone else. I was just saying that I wish all the "sluts" the best. And send some my way.</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:40:25 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Lester</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-09-20T19:40:25Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: It makes me very uneasy...</title>
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      <description>I would have to agree that many "sluts" ARE having more fun than those doing the labeling. I would just hope that they are doing it with their eyes wide open, not in a self-destructive way, or hurting anyone else in the process.</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:36:06 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Lester</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-09-20T19:36:06Z</dc:date>
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      <title>It makes me very uneasy...</title>
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      <description>... when people judge and label others' sexuality, and impose negative values on consensual behavior. It makes me evaluate very carefully whether I can comfortably be open with someone like that. &#xD;
&#xD;
Who shall cast the first stone? &#xD;
&#xD;
An acquaintance joyfully labels herself "a slut," by which she means that *she* defines her sexuality, decides who she has sex with and how often. She made that part of her online ad, and found that many who responded were frightened off when they learned that she meant that she was in control, and not that she was indiscriminate or "easy;" that she wasn't offering to be *their* slut exclusively. &#xD;
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Certainly a friend might be concerned about someone's engaging in compulsive behavior that's not bringing them pleasure, where they're not in control (or haven't consensually/voluntarily surrendered control).&#xD;
&#xD;
All too often, though, it seems to mean that the "slut" is having more fun than the person applying the label intending to hurt and demean.</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 05:53:25 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-09-20T05:53:25Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>You have wisdom Darlin.&#xD;
A rare thing now days.</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2009 03:07:58 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Sparky</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-08-19T03:07:58Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>"It's only namecalling if you're using it as a derogatory word. If it's used as a term of endearment, that changes things, doesn't it?"&#xD;
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Of course.....&#xD;
&#xD;
Sparky- your question is a little more.... subjective... not to mention confusing.. To the person hurt in this situation i'm sure she would be viewed as a slut... &#xD;
if your asking me i would say no... but i don't see these situations the same way some would...</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2009 01:20:57 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>stacy</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-08-19T01:20:57Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>What if you hire a "friend" (?) with a crew to do the demolition and framing when you remodel your home.&#xD;
He is recently divorced, lives by himself, is anti-social, hot tempered, macho.  The reasons his wife left him.&#xD;
He smiles at your wife, she smiles back, he flirts she flirts back, he hits on her she agrees to go to lunch then to his house.&#xD;
They have an affair for approxamately 18 months.&#xD;
She admits to the affair but says she still loves you.&#xD;
&#xD;
&#xD;
Is she a slut?</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 21:39:26 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Sparky</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-08-18T21:39:26Z</dc:date>
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      <description>It's only namecalling if you're using it as a derogatory word. If it's used as a term of endearment, that changes things, doesn't it?</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 05:22:16 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Lester</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-08-18T05:22:16Z</dc:date>
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      <description>tisk tisk tisk.... only while i'm being choked....</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 05:09:20 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>stacy</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-08-18T05:09:20Z</dc:date>
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      <description>...because I like to call names...   ...you dirty, dirty girl...</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 17 Aug 2009 05:22:55 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Billy Shears</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-08-17T05:22:55Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>So everyone's a slut in the situation..... seems fair enough.... but if everyone's genuinely enjoying themselves then who is anyones else to judge and call names?</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 17 Aug 2009 01:07:48 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>stacy</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-08-17T01:07:48Z</dc:date>
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      <description>I don't know about Rona's opinion, Stacy, but I guess that if I was one of the guys that did the deed with this lovely slut at the party, I would consider myself to be a slut. I do believe we ALL had fun, though.</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2009 20:36:07 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Lester</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-08-16T20:36:07Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>"also - i feel that a women who has sex with multiple men at the same party and likes being watched doing it - would be considered one."&#xD;
&#xD;
Really Rona????? and what of the men fucking her? Are they held to this same standard? or are they exempt from any sexual scrutiny.... must be nice....</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2009 08:35:17 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>stacy</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-08-16T08:35:17Z</dc:date>
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      <description>I like that one, Rona. I had sex at her at one of the parties. It was cool with everyone watching.</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2009 23:47:44 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Lester</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-08-15T23:47:44Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>i agree&#xD;
&#xD;
also - i feel that a women who has sex with multiple men at the same party and likes being watched doing it - would be considered one.</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2009 09:08:02 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>In2wishn</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-08-15T09:08:02Z</dc:date>
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      <description>For me, the definition is simple:&#xD;
&#xD;
Slut:  a woman (or man) who not only is sexually active, but does not value the relationships they are in.  They are concerned only with the freedom that they desire to be with whomever they want.  They are self centered in their actions.&#xD;
&#xD;
A Whore is a woman (or man) who is sexual active and whose only concern is the value of what they are receiving for their sexual favors.&#xD;
&#xD;
A committed relationship is one that MAY be highly sexual, but the woman (or man) is not concerned about the value of what they are receiving from  participation and are not wanting to be free to pursue others, rather they are selfless (or should be) with their sex and are content to have the relationship, even with zero compensation, because that provides them with the greatest amount of joy.</description>
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      <dc:creator>Hosts</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-05-26T20:21:30Z</dc:date>
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      <description>I like this!</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 18:31:11 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Miss Pixie Styxx</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-05-26T18:31:11Z</dc:date>
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      <description>Dante Hicks: You said you only had sex with three different guys; you never mentioned him!&#xD;
Veronica Loughran: Because I never HAD sex with him.&#xD;
Dante Hicks: You sucked his dick!&#xD;
Veronica Loughran: We went out a few times. We never had sex but we fooled around.&#xD;
Dante Hicks: Oh my God, WHY did you tell me you only had sex with three different guys?&#xD;
Veronica Loughran: Because I DID only have sex with three different guys; that doesn't mean I didn't just go with people.&#xD;
Dante Hicks: Oh my God, I feel so nauseous!&#xD;
Veronica Loughran: I'm sorry, Dante, I thought you understood!&#xD;
Dante Hicks: I did understand! I understood that you had sex with three different guys and that's all you said!&#xD;
Veronica Loughran: Please calm down.&#xD;
Dante Hicks: How many?&#xD;
Veronica Loughran: Dante...&#xD;
Dante Hicks: How many dicks have you sucked?&#xD;
Veronica Loughran: Let it go!&#xD;
Dante Hicks: How many?&#xD;
Veronica Loughran: All right, shut up a second and I'll tell you! Jesus! I didn't freak out like this when you told me how many girls you fucked!&#xD;
Dante Hicks: This is different, this is important. How many?&#xD;
[long pause as customer buys something]&#xD;
Dante Hicks: Well?&#xD;
Veronica Loughran: Something like... 36.&#xD;
Dante Hicks: What? Something like 36?&#xD;
Veronica Loughran: Lower your voice.&#xD;
Dante Hicks: Wait, what is that anyway, something like 36? Does that INCLUDE me?&#xD;
Veronica Loughran: Ummm... 37.&#xD;
Dante Hicks: I'm 37?</description>
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      <dc:creator>Billy Shears</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-05-26T17:18:33Z</dc:date>
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      <description>?</description>
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      <dc:creator>Miss Pixie Styxx</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-05-25T05:00:34Z</dc:date>
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      <description>I like this definition. It takes a lot of work for some people to say no to other people... its not something we can take for granted or beat other people up about....</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2009 04:50:07 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Miss Pixie Styxx</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-05-25T04:50:07Z</dc:date>
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      <description>37</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2009 04:49:40 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Billy Shears</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-05-25T04:49:40Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>Interesting definition!</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2009 04:47:31 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Miss Pixie Styxx</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-05-25T04:47:31Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>I think Manda described it best. A slut is someone (male of female) that allows themselves to be used like a piece of meat by whoever feels the need to take advantage of them. AND FEELS USED AND DEGRADED INSIDE BECAUSE OF IT. Like Manda described above , when you are losing at the game. Lose control. But these men and woman are usually in need of some therapy, because they obviously have major insecurity issues they are trying to hide through feeling wanted and attractive during se. It is really inappropriate, not to mention cruel to make fun of people in this state. Even though, trust me, i know, how frustrating it can be to witness, especially when it's someone you care about.&#xD;
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Unless....... of course, it's in a loving manner, like bitch, or hooker, or skank, pimp mama, I could keep going. ( theses are pet names for my girlfriends, and my sister) &#xD;
Ooooor in a role playing way with your partner in bed if you are into that.... &#xD;
anyway.... you get the point.....</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2009 04:44:00 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>stacy</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2009-05-25T04:44:00Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>I recently had to decide on a definition after  a blog i posted this week. i enjoy being Master's slut, I have no problem with other people calling a slut. It's when I become a slut in my own head that becomes the problem. By my definition a slut is any person that can't say no to any one. When I crossed the line and couldn't say no even though I wanted too, I lost the game. I became a slut in a dirty, disgraceful way and lost my power over the situation. &#xD;
I've called people sluts jokingly, like bitch/whore/asshole/prick/ect, but, there are always those cases where you really have to think about your own definition of the words and what they mean to you. because when you run across someone, or become that person by definition, then the words can be used to hurt people and cut them to the quick.</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 18:19:08 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>manda</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2008-07-05T18:19:08Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>in other words, a lot of male hormone/testosterone in women that are slutty</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 11:55:46 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>SynerGy</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2008-06-02T11:55:46Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>Typically a slut is a woman with a more masculine libido.&#xD;
A woman may fake an orgasim, a man can fake an entire relationship.&#xD;
I  cheer women who suceed in a typically male sport or job.&#xD;
&#xD;
I adore a woman with the, excuse the phrase, balls to get what she wants sexually.</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 31 May 2008 04:18:26 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Sparky</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2008-05-31T04:18:26Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>I won't even dare try to define it but will make a quick observation:&#xD;
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I picked up the "Ethical Slut" from my pile of "to do" reading not long ago. The introduction is really good and I was struck with how the authors decided to grab hold of the word, and own it, and turn it into something positive.&#xD;
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I only got as far as the introduction before another shiny object caught my eye but I'll get back to it at some point ;-)</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 26 May 2008 19:29:23 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>ForeRunner</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2008-05-26T19:29:23Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>to me, it's anyone who is indescriminately sexing anyone anytime anywhere  in a mindless and probably , unhealthy way, especially if it's harming/upsetting someone else ...</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 25 May 2008 22:20:12 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>SynerGy</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2008-05-25T22:20:12Z</dc:date>
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      <title>As posted in AASMA</title>
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      <description>"Slut" has two definitions for me, like "bitch" and "fag." It depends upon whether it is a loving nickname used for yourself or a friend or an insult hurled at a person you don't care for. When I use the word for a friend I'm making a joke of the cultural view of sluttishness. I mean only that the person enjoys sex a great deal with many different people, or is easy to get into bed. The word slut, as an insult, has a personal definition of an individual who has sex not because they love the person or enjoy the act but for expiation of guilt, payment for favors or affection, a way to be liked, or a way to manipulate others.</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 25 May 2008 09:14:17 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Myriad</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2008-05-25T09:14:17Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>The name of my agent is prominently displayed on my profile under the title..."Master". &#xD;
*grin*</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 25 May 2008 02:42:48 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:date>2008-05-25T02:42:48Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>May I make such a request for a performance Treasure, just for my edification and critique of course ;)</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 25 May 2008 02:28:33 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Simon</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2008-05-25T02:28:33Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>If I allowed others to use me like a Hershey bar&#xD;
A relatively cheap and easily obtained treat&#xD;
Then, in my opinion, I would be a slut.&#xD;
&#xD;
And if I were considered a commodity instead of a treasure&#xD;
Doled out to an assortment of stockholders,&#xD;
Then, in my opinion, I would be a slut.&#xD;
&#xD;
For some, all they are interested in is a candy bar relationship&#xD;
And for some, the stock market is the only way to go&#xD;
So for them, thank goodness there are sluts. &#xD;
&#xD;
But for me, being a slut seems a very empty endeavor&#xD;
The pleasures immediate and the loneliness lasting&#xD;
So I choose to be a treasure and not a slut.&#xD;
&#xD;
However, my active imagination and acting skills&#xD;
Can portrait a very convincing slut&#xD;
If the one I trust requests such a performance. *grin*</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 25 May 2008 02:02:28 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:date>2008-05-25T02:02:28Z</dc:date>
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      <title>Re: a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>mmmm I dont really count myself as a slut right now, I'm in a commited, generally closed relationship. But if I was in an open relationship, and had the right to flirt with ANYONE I chose, and had pleasure with any who I felt were worthy of me... then I'd be a slut, in the very purest, positive meaning of the word</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 25 May 2008 01:24:03 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Nadia</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2008-05-25T01:24:03Z</dc:date>
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      <title>a Slut defined..........</title>
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      <description>What makes a slut? Yes I know everyone will have a different definition but curious to hear yours. Do 7 dates (sexual encounters) in 7 days make one a slut? How about 9? or 4? what is the dividing line for you or in your mind?Maybe it is not the number of dates or encounters, perhaps it is simply about attitude. Enquiring minds want to know.......</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 24 May 2008 21:21:50 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>Simon</dc:creator>
      <dc:date>2008-05-24T21:21:50Z</dc:date>
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