Tribe.net. Local Connections Übersatan XXIII The Gryphonheart http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#6a737e75-6544-4c63-af42-d35c0cb89e83 2010-01-03T04:54:45Z 2010-01-03T04:54:22Z

I'm a proud male slut My ass is ambitious Come feel its redness A ripe autumn Delicious

Übersatan XXIII The Gryphonheart 2010-01-03T04:54:22Z Elysienne http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#9b2417ff-7964-4cc9-8423-abce97fa09b4 2010-01-03T03:47:22Z 2010-01-03T03:47:22Z

"An acquaintance joyfully labels herself "a slut," by which she means that *she* defines her sexuality, decides who she has sex with and how often." Good girl. And smart, too. And yes, if anyone wonders, this is very successfully accomplished according to the morality and sensibilities of the individual Female herself; married, single, or poly; in Relationship(s) or not.

Elysienne 2010-01-03T03:47:22Z Lester http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#8d3705fa-a58d-4c96-98d6-791116ad55bc 2010-01-02T21:56:00Z 2010-01-02T21:56:00Z

Elysienne, if I may say so, I really like your attitude.

Lester 2010-01-02T21:56:00Z Elysienne http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#bf967888-8404-4cbc-b032-0222cc17c209 2010-01-02T11:30:40Z 2010-01-02T11:30:40Z

Any Male, any Female, who enjoys their sex, their sexuality, their sexual reality. Screw the labels! Smash down the gates that fence and border! Burn the rules .... DO IT ... not because you're gay or straight, bi or switch or whatever ... whatever! ... but because IN THE MOMENT you chose to explore, experience, enjoy your birthright ... Pleasure. Slut. A sexual being enjoying their sex. And luvin' it.

Elysienne 2010-01-02T11:30:40Z Lester http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#7db629f5-4670-4530-81be-60c9fa88b449 2009-09-20T19:40:25Z 2009-09-20T19:40:25Z

After reading that, I want to add that I'm not saying that I think that most "sluts" are doing their thing in a self-destructive manner, or hurting anyone else. I was just saying that I wish all the "sluts" the best. And send some my way.

Lester 2009-09-20T19:40:25Z Lester http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#45615f67-726c-4270-aafb-35245515c519 2009-09-20T19:36:06Z 2009-09-20T19:36:06Z

I would have to agree that many "sluts" ARE having more fun than those doing the labeling. I would just hope that they are doing it with their eyes wide open, not in a self-destructive way, or hurting anyone else in the process.

Lester 2009-09-20T19:36:06Z Kim http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#e97f9f4c-3562-4921-88c7-ff69c5d3deea 2009-09-20T05:53:25Z 2009-09-20T05:53:25Z

... when people judge and label others' sexuality, and impose negative values on consensual behavior. It makes me evaluate very carefully whether I can comfortably be open with someone like that. Who shall cast the first stone? An acquaintance joyfully labels herself "a slut," by which she means that *she* defines her sexuality, decides who she has sex with and how often. She made that part of her online ad, and found that many who responded were frightened off when they learned that she meant that she was in control, and not that she was indiscriminate or "easy;" that she wasn't offering to be *their* slut exclusively. Certainly a friend might be concerned about someone's engaging in compulsive behavior that's not bringing them pleasure, where they're not in control (or haven't consensually/voluntarily surrendered control). All too often, though, it seems to mean that the "slut" is having more fun than the person applying the label intending to hurt and demean.

Kim 2009-09-20T05:53:25Z Sparky http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#e0120ef1-c403-4a0b-bd96-cd0f94c4e4d2 2009-08-19T03:07:58Z 2009-08-19T03:07:58Z

You have wisdom Darlin. A rare thing now days.

Sparky 2009-08-19T03:07:58Z stacy http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#e64ab222-3d9f-48b2-9f3f-9b6faeaedaf7 2009-08-19T01:20:57Z 2009-08-19T01:20:57Z

"It's only namecalling if you're using it as a derogatory word. If it's used as a term of endearment, that changes things, doesn't it?" Of course..... Sparky- your question is a little more.... subjective... not to mention confusing.. To the person hurt in this situation i'm sure she would be viewed as a slut... if your asking me i would say no... but i don't see these situations the same way some would...

stacy 2009-08-19T01:20:57Z Sparky http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#8ee8ce78-c97d-49d4-8c42-26ba62c7c4ce 2009-08-18T21:39:26Z 2009-08-18T21:39:26Z

What if you hire a "friend" (?) with a crew to do the demolition and framing when you remodel your home. He is recently divorced, lives by himself, is anti-social, hot tempered, macho. The reasons his wife left him. He smiles at your wife, she smiles back, he flirts she flirts back, he hits on her she agrees to go to lunch then to his house. They have an affair for approxamately 18 months. She admits to the affair but says she still loves you. Is she a slut?

Sparky 2009-08-18T21:39:26Z Lester http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#1771d6a2-7b7b-4d5e-b9df-0175c65cce72 2009-08-18T05:22:16Z 2009-08-18T05:22:16Z

It's only namecalling if you're using it as a derogatory word. If it's used as a term of endearment, that changes things, doesn't it?

Lester 2009-08-18T05:22:16Z stacy http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#435aa633-d714-4514-aaba-fa3f47ac9fa4 2009-08-18T05:09:20Z 2009-08-18T05:09:20Z

tisk tisk tisk.... only while i'm being choked....

stacy 2009-08-18T05:09:20Z Billy Shears http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#2ceaa97c-d01d-44e3-8aaf-7c2ebbfdf3b7 2009-08-17T05:22:55Z 2009-08-17T05:22:55Z

...because I like to call names... ...you dirty, dirty girl...

Billy Shears 2009-08-17T05:22:55Z stacy http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#99f011be-c50f-4c2c-88f1-51c8c33524dd 2009-08-17T01:07:48Z 2009-08-17T01:07:48Z

So everyone's a slut in the situation..... seems fair enough.... but if everyone's genuinely enjoying themselves then who is anyones else to judge and call names?

stacy 2009-08-17T01:07:48Z Lester http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#f88a5f4e-c1cc-4a0c-a00f-d8052572c94b 2009-08-16T20:36:07Z 2009-08-16T20:36:07Z

I don't know about Rona's opinion, Stacy, but I guess that if I was one of the guys that did the deed with this lovely slut at the party, I would consider myself to be a slut. I do believe we ALL had fun, though.

Lester 2009-08-16T20:36:07Z stacy http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#2a4a3093-557c-40eb-bd50-6580048e9e31 2009-08-16T08:35:17Z 2009-08-16T08:35:17Z

"also - i feel that a women who has sex with multiple men at the same party and likes being watched doing it - would be considered one." Really Rona????? and what of the men fucking her? Are they held to this same standard? or are they exempt from any sexual scrutiny.... must be nice....

stacy 2009-08-16T08:35:17Z Lester http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#86c671a9-9282-4d4d-ab8b-1f7998257cc0 2009-08-15T23:47:44Z 2009-08-15T23:47:44Z

I like that one, Rona. I had sex at her at one of the parties. It was cool with everyone watching.

Lester 2009-08-15T23:47:44Z In2wishn http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#0c017b7d-812b-464b-9ef5-23baf5f901a3 2009-08-15T09:08:02Z 2009-08-15T09:08:02Z

i agree also - i feel that a women who has sex with multiple men at the same party and likes being watched doing it - would be considered one.

In2wishn 2009-08-15T09:08:02Z Hosts http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#7a7b30f7-7ced-4f25-a6a3-3cf96d192236 2009-05-26T20:21:30Z 2009-05-26T20:21:30Z

For me, the definition is simple: Slut: a woman (or man) who not only is sexually active, but does not value the relationships they are in. They are concerned only with the freedom that they desire to be with whomever they want. They are self centered in their actions. A Whore is a woman (or man) who is sexual active and whose only concern is the value of what they are receiving for their sexual favors. A committed relationship is one that MAY be highly sexual, but the woman (or man) is not concerned about the value of what they are receiving from participation and are not wanting to be free to pursue others, rather they are selfless (or should be) with their sex and are content to have the relationship, even with zero compensation, because that provides them with the greatest amount of joy.

Hosts 2009-05-26T20:21:30Z Miss Pixie Styxx http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#6728963a-1186-4367-95d4-58a639f236f8 2009-05-26T18:31:11Z 2009-05-26T18:31:11Z

I like this!

Miss Pixie Styxx 2009-05-26T18:31:11Z Billy Shears http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#51d0a018-0fb8-4482-a2a1-54bede43b7ec 2009-05-26T17:18:33Z 2009-05-26T17:18:33Z

Dante Hicks: You said you only had sex with three different guys; you never mentioned him! Veronica Loughran: Because I never HAD sex with him. Dante Hicks: You sucked his dick! Veronica Loughran: We went out a few times. We never had sex but we fooled around. Dante Hicks: Oh my God, WHY did you tell me you only had sex with three different guys? Veronica Loughran: Because I DID only have sex with three different guys; that doesn't mean I didn't just go with people. Dante Hicks: Oh my God, I feel so nauseous! Veronica Loughran: I'm sorry, Dante, I thought you understood! Dante Hicks: I did understand! I understood that you had sex with three different guys and that's all you said! Veronica Loughran: Please calm down. Dante Hicks: How many? Veronica Loughran: Dante... Dante Hicks: How many dicks have you sucked? Veronica Loughran: Let it go! Dante Hicks: How many? Veronica Loughran: All right, shut up a second and I'll tell you! Jesus! I didn't freak out like this when you told me how many girls you fucked! Dante Hicks: This is different, this is important. How many? [long pause as customer buys something] Dante Hicks: Well? Veronica Loughran: Something like... 36. Dante Hicks: What? Something like 36? Veronica Loughran: Lower your voice. Dante Hicks: Wait, what is that anyway, something like 36? Does that INCLUDE me? Veronica Loughran: Ummm... 37. Dante Hicks: I'm 37?

Billy Shears 2009-05-26T17:18:33Z Miss Pixie Styxx http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#a89759d7-4465-46e2-b95d-fc3364e9c8e4 2009-05-25T05:00:34Z 2009-05-25T05:00:34Z

?

Miss Pixie Styxx 2009-05-25T05:00:34Z Miss Pixie Styxx http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#8c7725e5-db22-4ccb-891f-faf551cda35d 2009-05-25T04:50:07Z 2009-05-25T04:50:07Z

I like this definition. It takes a lot of work for some people to say no to other people... its not something we can take for granted or beat other people up about....

Miss Pixie Styxx 2009-05-25T04:50:07Z Billy Shears http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#bfb3431b-e270-433f-a17e-72e032c4d179 2009-05-25T04:49:40Z 2009-05-25T04:49:40Z

37

Billy Shears 2009-05-25T04:49:40Z Miss Pixie Styxx http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#3564f7b6-c4ab-496e-809b-db361ea945d8 2009-05-25T04:47:31Z 2009-05-25T04:47:31Z

Interesting definition!

Miss Pixie Styxx 2009-05-25T04:47:31Z stacy http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#ba768398-ca2f-437e-87ff-e05e94da98d9 2009-05-25T04:44:00Z 2009-05-25T04:44:00Z

I think Manda described it best. A slut is someone (male of female) that allows themselves to be used like a piece of meat by whoever feels the need to take advantage of them. AND FEELS USED AND DEGRADED INSIDE BECAUSE OF IT. Like Manda described above , when you are losing at the game. Lose control. But these men and woman are usually in need of some therapy, because they obviously have major insecurity issues they are trying to hide through feeling wanted and attractive during se. It is really inappropriate, not to mention cruel to make fun of people in this state. Even though, trust me, i know, how frustrating it can be to witness, especially when it's someone you care about. Unless....... of course, it's in a loving manner, like bitch, or hooker, or skank, pimp mama, I could keep going. ( theses are pet names for my girlfriends, and my sister) Ooooor in a role playing way with your partner in bed if you are into that.... anyway.... you get the point.....

stacy 2009-05-25T04:44:00Z manda http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#d95253c4-e020-4d2f-a06d-1fc4f015ffc1 2008-07-05T18:19:08Z 2008-07-05T18:19:08Z

I recently had to decide on a definition after a blog i posted this week. i enjoy being Master's slut, I have no problem with other people calling a slut. It's when I become a slut in my own head that becomes the problem. By my definition a slut is any person that can't say no to any one. When I crossed the line and couldn't say no even though I wanted too, I lost the game. I became a slut in a dirty, disgraceful way and lost my power over the situation. I've called people sluts jokingly, like bitch/whore/asshole/prick/ect, but, there are always those cases where you really have to think about your own definition of the words and what they mean to you. because when you run across someone, or become that person by definition, then the words can be used to hurt people and cut them to the quick.

manda 2008-07-05T18:19:08Z SynerGy http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#58796918-754b-4daa-b5c7-efe7bab2219a 2008-06-02T11:55:46Z 2008-06-02T11:55:46Z

in other words, a lot of male hormone/testosterone in women that are slutty

SynerGy 2008-06-02T11:55:46Z Sparky http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#db59a9ee-796b-496f-8dd1-3a9b59405f8f 2008-05-31T04:18:26Z 2008-05-31T04:18:26Z

Typically a slut is a woman with a more masculine libido. A woman may fake an orgasim, a man can fake an entire relationship. I cheer women who suceed in a typically male sport or job. I adore a woman with the, excuse the phrase, balls to get what she wants sexually.

Sparky 2008-05-31T04:18:26Z ForeRunner http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#aac623e8-e569-42c5-9762-fd4742c6c586 2008-05-26T19:29:23Z 2008-05-26T19:29:23Z

I won't even dare try to define it but will make a quick observation: I picked up the "Ethical Slut" from my pile of "to do" reading not long ago. The introduction is really good and I was struck with how the authors decided to grab hold of the word, and own it, and turn it into something positive. I only got as far as the introduction before another shiny object caught my eye but I'll get back to it at some point ;-)

ForeRunner 2008-05-26T19:29:23Z SynerGy http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#e990c9b2-939c-4568-8618-67fe82cb5500 2008-05-25T22:20:12Z 2008-05-25T22:20:12Z

to me, it's anyone who is indescriminately sexing anyone anytime anywhere in a mindless and probably , unhealthy way, especially if it's harming/upsetting someone else ...

SynerGy 2008-05-25T22:20:12Z Myriad http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#f887e84e-fdcb-43e4-a576-114fa232af5e 2008-05-25T09:14:17Z 2008-05-25T09:14:17Z

"Slut" has two definitions for me, like "bitch" and "fag." It depends upon whether it is a loving nickname used for yourself or a friend or an insult hurled at a person you don't care for. When I use the word for a friend I'm making a joke of the cultural view of sluttishness. I mean only that the person enjoys sex a great deal with many different people, or is easy to get into bed. The word slut, as an insult, has a personal definition of an individual who has sex not because they love the person or enjoy the act but for expiation of guilt, payment for favors or affection, a way to be liked, or a way to manipulate others.

Myriad 2008-05-25T09:14:17Z $item.owner.firstName http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#f4da44a1-cb3c-4f95-b370-b8a356012abe 2008-05-25T02:42:48Z 2008-05-25T02:42:48Z

The name of my agent is prominently displayed on my profile under the title..."Master". *grin*

$item.owner.firstName 2008-05-25T02:42:48Z Simon http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#de22daa5-0b3a-4806-8b8b-3f23c4d4359c 2008-05-25T02:28:33Z 2008-05-25T02:28:33Z

May I make such a request for a performance Treasure, just for my edification and critique of course ;)

Simon 2008-05-25T02:28:33Z $item.owner.firstName http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#c1c3519c-3b86-4857-b997-6bdf007bc4f1 2008-05-25T02:02:28Z 2008-05-25T02:02:28Z

If I allowed others to use me like a Hershey bar A relatively cheap and easily obtained treat Then, in my opinion, I would be a slut. And if I were considered a commodity instead of a treasure Doled out to an assortment of stockholders, Then, in my opinion, I would be a slut. For some, all they are interested in is a candy bar relationship And for some, the stock market is the only way to go So for them, thank goodness there are sluts. But for me, being a slut seems a very empty endeavor The pleasures immediate and the loneliness lasting So I choose to be a treasure and not a slut. However, my active imagination and acting skills Can portrait a very convincing slut If the one I trust requests such a performance. *grin*

$item.owner.firstName 2008-05-25T02:02:28Z Nadia http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#fa4d0067-6429-466b-81d5-c80a715182bd 2008-05-25T01:24:03Z 2008-05-25T01:24:03Z

mmmm I dont really count myself as a slut right now, I'm in a commited, generally closed relationship. But if I was in an open relationship, and had the right to flirt with ANYONE I chose, and had pleasure with any who I felt were worthy of me... then I'd be a slut, in the very purest, positive meaning of the word

Nadia 2008-05-25T01:24:03Z Simon http://HotSex.tribe.net/thread/2579a02a-3836-44f3-ba22-d7e0b5f477ad#53f2228f-5459-4fee-a877-11344cbca105 2008-05-24T21:21:50Z 2008-05-24T21:21:50Z

What makes a slut? Yes I know everyone will have a different definition but curious to hear yours. Do 7 dates (sexual encounters) in 7 days make one a slut? How about 9? or 4? what is the dividing line for you or in your mind?Maybe it is not the number of dates or encounters, perhaps it is simply about attitude. Enquiring minds want to know.......

Simon 2008-05-24T21:21:50Z