10 sex mistakes women make

topic posted Sun, May 18, 2008 - 12:52 AM by  Alan
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Alan
SF Bay Area
  • Re: 10 sex mistakes women make

    Mon, May 19, 2008 - 9:02 PM
    Apart from these lists being very generalist and not very realistic, I don't agree with any of it.

    It's a two way street, if he doesn't like teeth & I do then maybe we're not sexually compatible.

    And being told in one breath to "Strive to stay trim and look your best, and apparently effortlessly at that" (WTF is that? God forbid we should show results are made through *gasp* effort!) and in the next "Big or small, short or tall, what men find a turn-on more than anything is how a woman carries herself — her confidence"......how can you be confident if you're constantly measuring yourself against an ideal someone else has set but not defined? "Look you're best" is subjective to the eye of the beholder!

    Not taking it all too seriously, but i say "BALLS!!!" to this list of 10 mistakes supposedly made by women.
    • Re: 10 sex mistakes women make

      Tue, May 20, 2008 - 8:54 AM
      I was going to post something to this and probably should have, but I guess after that last comment; I have more incentive, lol.
      One mistake men should never make:
      Posting or publishing an article that supposedly identifies how women think.
      lol
      Betcha.....
      .....I disagreed with some of the article too.
      • Re: 10 sex mistakes women make

        Tue, May 20, 2008 - 2:23 PM
        hahahahaha....amen, Betcha, amen. and vice versa! these things only really work for me as reading material when they're openly tongue-in-cheek. :)
        • Re: 10 sex mistakes women make

          Tue, May 20, 2008 - 2:59 PM
          They are better suited printed on toilet tissue paper, like in the gag section at "Spencer's", lol.
          If only trash magazines were softer on the buttocks too, lmao.
          Betcha
          • Re: 10 sex mistakes women make

            Tue, May 27, 2008 - 12:10 AM
            HMMMM... I have not felt teeth before. I always asumed it wouldn't feel good. Pain would make me lose my boner. I like getting nails on my back, though
            • Re: 10 sex mistakes women make

              Sat, July 5, 2008 - 11:31 AM
              teeth don't always have to be painful. If the person knows what they are doing a quick bite can feel close to what a set of nails feels like in your back, just a hot wet center. it also depends on where the bites are. fleshy part of your fore arms and shoulders take the bites much easier then say a pectoral muscle or abdominal. how sharp our partners teeth are can also play a part in it too.

              (sorry I'm going to ignore the article)
  • Re: 10 sex mistakes women make

    Sat, July 5, 2008 - 2:15 PM
    I've said it before and I'll say it again: there is only ever one mistake people make when it comes to sex, and that one mistake is not communicating enough with their partner/s.
    • Hmmm... just one?

      Sun, July 6, 2008 - 9:52 AM
      I'd add a bit more. Not being honest with yourself about what you want and what works for you. Not taking responsibility for your own pleasure. (Communication is one route to achieve that, granted.)
  • Balls.

    Sun, July 6, 2008 - 9:57 AM
    As others have said, these lists are worthless... when they're not actually harmful. The harm comes from people reading them and being misled into thinking that they have information about what their partner (or prospective partners) think/want/need. The harm comes from denying your own desires and changing your behavior to reflect something you read in some mag somewhere.

    The only improvement in anyone's sex life that comes from these is that the writer has a few extra coins to spend on a night out or a sex worker or some porn.
  • Re: 10 sex mistakes women make

    Sun, August 3, 2008 - 6:49 AM


    The main thing was not mentioned on the site !! ;)





    Women !

    Seduce your men ! Wear sexy lingeries ! Wear leather panties ! Hold on a whip ! Play a Tigress !
    And if he is against , just whip his ass till red !

    ((((((I am sure,this will make a great heat in the bed room as guys are thinking of themselves mostly dominant
    and "they are masters" as they think,
    so some antagonist thinking way of their ladies will make their shafts really up and ladies will tingle endlessly with whips in hands themselves for sure ;) !! )))))))

    "Obey Your Mistress! or you are a corpse !!"- Shout to him looking into his already scared ,but excited eyes by killing looks !!
    and have the wonderful night ...





    ***one more tip from Adriana : pour shampagne on his chest,belly,underbelly and lick it thouroughfully all .

    • Re: 10 sex mistakes women make

      Sat, August 9, 2008 - 12:42 PM
      Communication! Knowing what your partner likes is what is going to make them hot. And you're not going to get much out of it if your partner doesn't know what makes you hot. That's why lovemaking with a regular partner can be so much more satisfying than a one night stand. If two people have the desire to please each other, and the knowledge of their partner's hot buttons, everything else falls into place, and good things happen. For example, the teeth thing. I am not into pain during sex. Not even a little bit. So I always assumed that a woman shouldn't use her teeth during oral sex. Then I realized that one woman I was with WAS using her teeth, and it was driving me wild. It didn't hurt at all, and just added another layer of feeling I hadn't experienced before. There can't be any rules set in stone, since everyone is different.

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