How long can you go without sex?

topic posted Sat, February 2, 2008 - 8:17 AM by  Alan
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  • Re: How long can you go without sex?

    Tue, May 13, 2008 - 5:29 AM
    not very long, i'mma scorpio / venus in scorpio
    • Re: How long can you go without sex?

      Mon, September 29, 2008 - 12:32 AM
      I'm a Venus in Scorp, too. Longest I ever went was 5.... years, living in a very secluded paradise in the hills. Way too spartan, I guess. Must be my conjuct Saturn/Venus. Damn! The "needs signs" are something I've observed in partners but not so much myself. My "self" is usually very into other things when I am not maintaining a love-life, so I don't find myself substituting masturbation for love-making. If I'm idle I'm much more likely to want some kind of high, sexual or otherwise. But, as others said, that is when there is no object of one's affection in the environment. When that person/s in my private life there is a *constant* desire to express myself sexually with them. Passion comes in many forms and in some cases one that can't be expressed is transferred to one that can, even if negative. In a way, the "needs signs" can also be signs one needs a life that has passion/zest. When yours is genuine you may find yourself in small company... even solo. In my experience, partners most frustrated over frequency of sex and or relationship issues needed a lot more than sex to fill out their own life, but they didn't see it that way.
  • Re: How long can you go without sex?

    Tue, May 13, 2008 - 7:06 AM
    Meh, I can go as long as I have to or as long as I need to, but just because I'm not having sex doesn't mean that I'm not doing self maintenance or receiving affection. I love a good romp as much (or some would say more) than the next gal but when I'm not fit to be in a relationship, well, I could just pick up somebody to fuck but it's a lot cheaper and safer to go buy some AA batteries and a new smut novel.
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      Re: How long can you go without sex?

      Tue, May 13, 2008 - 11:20 PM
      A LOOOONG time!!
      I have my light pink perfect pleasures jelly =]
      • Isabelle

        Wed, May 14, 2008 - 6:31 PM
        I hate to be a downer but you may want to use a condom on your jelly. A lot of the "jelly" toys are technically sold for novelty uses only so there is not regulation of their materials. Some of them contain some pretty damned toxic stuff that tends to degrade over time. You might want to do a little research on your own toy and its manufacturer to see what yours is made of. The good news is that, with a condom, even the most toxic toys are totally safe.
  • Re: How long can you go without sex?

    Thu, May 15, 2008 - 10:29 AM
    As long as I have to. But if Honey is home, I NEED it at least every few days. The reality of kids and work interfere too often. But lately as I have been having some heath problems it has been 5 days, 5 days too long!
  • Re: How long can you go without sex?

    Mon, May 19, 2008 - 9:59 PM
    I can go as long as I kind of need to, depending on how active my partners feel, and how the schedule works out.
    I've gone months, and a year or so. And I don't masturbate, so I just kind of shut that part of me off for a while.
  • Re: How long can you go without sex?

    Wed, September 3, 2008 - 3:37 PM
    I went seven years at one point. I'm not into one night stands and only have sex if its with someone I care about, so since I was without a partner I ended up with a seven year stay in celibacy city.

    At the moment its been about five months, and I'm missing it, but not as much as I miss my other half. We'll be reunited soon and that break will be more than made up for, I'm sure.
  • Re: How long can you go without sex?

    Tue, September 23, 2008 - 12:50 PM
    I CAN go without real sex ,yes,
    but all porn sites are fuked used * - * fully !! as 24 hours a day I am in them !! ;D :D ;D

    uuuhmmmmm...I need this sex !! :D
    :D and it makes me laugh !! :D


    Will my laughter break my guy`s hardness ?? :O :O :O

    I will suck his stick and he will again become my lovely hard lollipop,I hope !! ;D LOL
    ...

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